By: Marie McCollum
Time to spice it up.
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“Never have I ever” is not just for middle school sleepovers, this classic game can reveal things about your partner that you never knew.
You can play the traditional way (by putting a finger down) or try one of the many variations of this fun game, even spice things up. Either way, don’t rush. Let these prompts start deep or funny conversations or . . . other activities.
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Best Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples
1. Never have I ever ghosted someone
2. Never have I ever given a fake number
3. Never have I ever stolen something
4. Never have I ever lied to a friend about their appearance
5. Never have I cheated on a test
6. Never have I ever pretended to be allergic to something I didn’t like (food, animals, etc.)
7. Never have I ever lied on a dating profile
7. Never have I ever had an imaginary friend
8. Never have I ever cried because of a children’s movie (as an adult)
9. Never have I ever had a crush on an animated character
10. Never have I ever argued with a stranger online
11. Never have I ever sent a celebrity a direct message
12. Never have I ever lied about my music taste
13. Never have I ever confessed my feelings to a crush
14. Never have I ever had a fake ID
15. Never have I ever done FBI-level research on a stranger
16. Never have I ever spied on an ex’s new partner online
17. Never have I ever been arrested
18. Never have I ever broken a bone
19. Never have I ever physically hurt a sibling (intentional or accidental)
20. Never have I ever received a speeding ticket
21. Never have I ever given a fake name to a stranger
22. Never have I ever lied to get in somewhere (club, hospital, restaurant, etc.)
23. Never have I ever skipped to the end of a book
24. Never have I ever accidentally sent someone a text about them
25. Never have I ever forgotten a close friend’s or family member’s birthday
26. Never have I ever crashed a party
27. Never have I ever been betrayed by a close friend
28. Never have I ever regretted quitting a job or class
29. Never have I ever traveled abroad
30. Never have I ever been skydiving
31. Never have I ever been on a blind date
32. Never have I ever had an irrational fear
33. Never have I ever lied to my manager
34. Never have I ever pretended to like something for a partner
35. Never have I ever gotten a tattoo
36. Never have I ever spontaneously cut or colored my hair
37. Never have I ever snuck out of my parents’ home
38. Never have I ever pretended I did not forget a promise
39. Never have I ever regifted a gift
40. Never have I ever fluently spoken another language
41. Never have I ever performed before an audience
42. Never have I ever failed a class
43. Never have I ever been stood up
44. Never have I ever been on a road trip
45. Never have I ever been kicked out of a bar or restaurant
46. Never have I ever been in a physical fight
47. Never have I ever smoked (cigarette, cigar, etc.)
48. Never have I ever kept a big secret from a family member
49. Never have I ever pretended not to know someone who said they knew me
50. Never have I ever played an instrument
51. Never have I ever betrayed a friend
52. Never have I ever wrote a love letter
53. Never have I ever lied about my age
54. Never have I ever sleepwalked
55. Never have I ever cried in public
56. Never have I even gone on a solo vacation
57. Never have I ever had surgery
58. Never have I ever broken a law
59. Never have I ever drunk dialed someone
60. Never have I ever cheered for a sports team to impress someone
61. Never have I ever been to Europe
62. Never have I ever refused to watch or read something solely because it’s popular
63. Never have I ever lied for a friend
64. Never have I ever watched a shared show without my partner
65. Never have I ever pretended to like someone
66. Never have I ever been on a roller coaster
67. Never have I ever held a baby
68. Never have I ever been to the ocean
69. Never have I ever skied or snowboarded
70. Never have I ever seen a shooting star
71. Never have I ever run a race
72. Never have I ever had braces
73. Never have I ever been heartbroken
74. Never have I ever had a surprise party thrown for me
75. Never have I ever had a piercing anywhere but my ears
76. Never have I ever been in an ambulance
77. Never have I ever cheated on a partner
78. Never have I ever been cheated on
79. Never have I ever lived outside of the country
80. Never have I ever been camping
81. Never have I ever met a celebrity
82. Never have I ever won an award
83. Never have I ever done karaoke
84. Never have I ever traveled to more than 20 states
85. Never have I ever pretended a friend’s baby was cute
86. Never have I ever snooped around a friend’s house
87. Never have I ever had a wardrobe malfunction in public
88. Never have I ever thrown up in public
89. Never have I ever called the cops on someone
90. Never have I ever hit a parked car
91. Never have I ever had a crush on a friend’s sibling
92. Never have I ever snooped through a partner’s phone
93. Never have I ever blamed a mistake on someone else
94. Never have I ever watched a reality show
95. Never have I ever laughed at an inappropriate time
96. Never have I ever said “I love you” first
97. Never have I ever flirted to get something for free
98. Never have I ever waited tables
99. Never have I ever lost a bet
Best Never Have I Ever Dirty Questions for Couples
1. Never have I ever said the wrong name during sex
2. Never have I ever joined the “Mile High Club”
3. Never have I ever performed a striptease
4. Never have I ever kissed someone on the first date
5. Never have I ever faked an orgasm
6. Never have I ever had sex in my childhood bedroom
7. Never have I ever attempted a sexual act while my partner was driving a car
8. Never have I ever been caught getting it on
9. Never have I ever had a threesome
10. Never have I ever made out with a stranger
11. Never have I ever broke a piece of furniture during sex
12. Never have I ever been walked in on by my parents during sex
13. Never have I ever had a sex dream about a celebrity
14. Never have I ever had sex in a public bathroom
15. Never have I ever been handsy in a body of water (ocean, pool, etc.)
16. Never have I ever had sex in public (even if hidden)
17. Never have I ever slept with a friend’s ex
18. Never have I ever left a hickey on someone
19. Never have I ever caught someone having sex
20. Never have I ever lied about what I like in bed
21. Never have I ever gotten an injury from sex
22. Never have I ever been blindfolded during sex
23. Never have I ever used a sex toy
24. Never have I ever had sex with someone else in the room (asleep or awake)
25. Never have I ever scheduled sex with a partner
26. Never have I ever had a one-night stand
27. Never have I ever slept with an ex’s friend
28. Never have I ever sent a nude or sexy picture to someone
29. Never have I ever eaten something off of someone
30. Never have I ever received a sexy picture
31. Never have I ever done role-play in bed
32. Never have I ever flirted with a teacher
33. Never have I fantasized about a celebrity
34. Never have I ever been turned on just by someone’s voice
35. Never have I ever searched spicy sex positions
36. Never have I ever had sex with a virgin
37. Never have I ever been given a dirty nickname
38. Never have I ever called someone a spicy nickname
39. Never have I ever read erotica
40. Never have I ever tried a position from the Kama Sutra
41. Never have I ever had a friend with benefits
42. Never have I ever hooked up with someone 10+ years older than me
43. Never have I ever hooked up with someone 5+ years younger than me
44. Never have I ever had phone or video call sex
45. Never have I ever had multiple orgasms
46. Never have I ever used a dirty pickup line
47. Never have I ever given a name to a partner’s genitals
48. Never have I ever sexted someone
49. Never have I ever given a lap dance
50. Never have I ever sent someone a juicy text while we were out in public together
51. Never have I ever had sex more than three times within a day
52. Never have I ever made a sexy playlist
53. Never have I ever had sex in a bed that wasn’t mine, my partner’s, or a hotel’s
54. Never have I ever tried 69 with someone
55. Never have I ever tried anal sex
56. Never have I ever woken up a roommate or family member with sex noises
57. Never have I ever been handsy on the dance floor
58. Never have I ever sent a nude picture to the wrong person
59. Never have I ever christened every room in a house
60. Never have I ever had a quickie on a lunch break
61. Never have I ever accidentally called someone while getting it on
62. Never have I ever gone commando
63. Never have I ever fantasized about a partner while at work
64. Never have I ever pleasured myself in front of a partner
65. Never have I ever had shower sex
66. Never have I ever hooked up with someone I met at a wedding
67. Never have I ever undressed someone without using my hands
68. Never have I ever touched someone under a table in public
69. Never have I ever made out in an elevator
70. Never have I ever hooked up with a colleague
71. Never have I ever used ice cubes in the bedroom
72. Never have I ever sexually teased someone on purpose
73. Never have I ever planned an erotic date night
74. Never have I ever acted out a sexy scene from a book or movie
75. Never have I ever had sex in a costume
76. Never have I ever tried tantric sex
77. Never have I ever been to a strip club
78. Never have I ever attempted my fantasy with a partner
79. Never have I ever worn holiday-themed lingerie (Christmas, Halloween etc.)
80. Never have I been to a nude beach
81. Never have I ever flashed someone
82. Never have I been skinny-dipping
83. Never have I ever participated in someone’s fetish or fantasy
84. Never have I ever been hot and heavy in the back of a taxi or Uber
85. Never have I ever crushed on more than one person at the same time
86. Never have I ever had sex in a hot tub
87. Never have I ever had sex somewhere “taboo”
88. Never have I ever had sex in the woods
89. Never have I ever used a household item in the bedroom
90. Never have I ever had sexy pictures taken of me
91. Never have I ever had sex in my place of work
92. Never have I ever fallen asleep during sex
93. Never have I ever lied about my sexual experiences
94. Never have I ever hooked up in a movie theater
95. Never have I ever had sex within earshot of a family member
96. Never have I ever had sex on a balcony
97. Never have I ever taught someone what I like in bed
98. Never have I ever made a sex tape
99. Never have I ever had sex on the kitchen counter
100. Never have I ever performed a sexual act while my partner was on a call
Conclusion
It’s amazing how much a little game can reveal.
Games such as “never have I ever” can deepen the intimacy between new and even veteran couples. Asking obscure or sexy prompts allows you and your partner to share the story behind the answer.
And when the conversation is done, try one of those spicy things you’ve never done.
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