Report Highlights: Sexual violence disproportionately impacts LGBTQ+ individuals, with nearly 47% of transgender people estimated to experience sexual assault in their lifetime. These statistics highlight the alarming rates of sexual violence and the challenges faced by LGBTQ+ communities in seeking safety and support.
Nearly 50% of transgender people report experiencing sexual assault at some point in their lives.61% of bisexual women experience rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner.85% of advocates have worked with an LGBTQ+ survivor who was denied services.48% of LGBTQ+ individuals who have been raped experienced their first rape between the ages of 11 and 17.22% of transgender individuals report that the perpetrator of their assault was an intimate partner.40% of gay men and 47% of bisexual men report experiencing sexual violence other than rape.61.1% of bisexual women and <strong>37.3% of bisexual men</strong> report experiencing some form of gender violence.15% of Black transgender individuals report experiencing sexual assault while in K–12 education.In the U.S., 40% of gay men have experienced sexual violence other than rape, compared to 21% of straight men.
What is the rate of violence and abuse in same-sex relationships?
44% of lesbian women have experienced rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner.26% of gay men have faced similar intimate partner violence in their lifetime.61% of bisexual women report experiencing rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner.37% of bisexual men have experienced intimate partner violence.
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What LGBTQ+ couples have the highest domestic violence rates?
Among LGBTQ+ couples, research indicates that bisexual women and transgender people experience higher rates of domestic violence. Here are two key statistics:
61% of bisexual women have experienced rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner.44% of lesbian women have experienced rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner in their lifetime.37% of bisexual men have experienced rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner in their lifetime.
What LGBTQ+ groups are most likely to avoid seeking healthcare due to discrimination?
23% of transgender individuals avoided necessary healthcare due to fear of mistreatment.33% of transgender people who saw a healthcare provider faced negative experiences related to being transgender.Gay and bisexual individuals may also avoid healthcare but at lower rates compared to transgender individuals.
How does policing differ between LGBTQ and straight domestic violence?
LGBTQ+ survivors are more likely to experience hostile attitudes from law enforcement.54% of LGBTQ+ survivors who sought help from police reported being turned away or receiving inadequate assistance.LGBTQ+ individuals may face wrongful arrest or dual arrest more frequently than heterosexual counterparts.Transgender survivors often report higher levels of police misconduct when reporting domestic violence.
Hear my voice: dealing with violence in the LGBTQ+ community
Tips for victims
Consider reaching out to law enforcement.
Despite your apprehension about going to the police, reporting the abuse is a crucial step toward ensuring your safety and holding the perpetrator accountable. Some police departments have officers trained to handle LGBTQ+ cases with sensitivity.
If you’re determined not to involve the police:
- Reach out to LGBTQ+-friendly organizations.
Connect with local LGBTQ+ centers, hotlines, or shelters that specialize in supporting individuals facing violence: National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs (NCAVP), The Trevor Project, or Trans Lifeline - Create a safety plan.
Develop a plan that includes trusted contacts, emergency funds, and a safe place to go if needed. - Document the abuse.
Keep records of incidents, including dates, times, and descriptions, which can be useful if you decide to take action later. More info: How to Document Abuse and Prove Domestic Violence - Seek legal advice.
Consult legal professionals or advocacy groups that offer free or low-cost services to understand your rights. - Engage with supportive communities.
Join support groups or online forums where you can share experiences and receive encouragement. Try LGBTQ+ Subreddits on Reddit, TrevorSpace, or Q Chat Space if you’re a teenager.
Tips for friends and family of victims
- Listen without judgment. Provide a safe space for your loved one to share their experiences without fear of criticism or disbelief.
- Offer unconditional support. Let them know you’re there for them, regardless of their decision to involve the authorities or not.
- Respect their autonomy. Allow them to make their own decisions while offering guidance and support.
- Educate yourself. Learn about the challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals in abusive situations to better understand and assist.
- Encourage professional help. Gently suggest reaching out to counselors, therapists, or support organizations specialized in LGBTQ+ issues.
- Help with safety planning. Assist in creating a plan that enhances their safety and provides options in case of emergencies.
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