\u201cThat wasn\u2019t me. I was drunk. That\u2019s not who I am.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Researchers at the University of Tennessee at Knoxville and Florida State University found recently that men and women who have been drinking alcohol are at a greater risk of becoming physically and sexually aggressive with their partners. And while alcohol itself does not cause dating violence, it can aggravate it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The abuse of alcohol is accompanied by a craving to drink, a loss of control, physical dependence and high tolerance. Alcoholism has little to do with willpower and a lot to do with an uncontrollable need to drink. While genetics play a major role in alcoholism, a person\u2019s environment also affects it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So why is this disease so easily linked to dating abuse? Why is alcohol use such a significant risk factor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Given that\u00a018-to-34-year-olds binge drink the most<\/a>\u00a0and that two-thirds of high school-age students who drink do so to the point of intoxication, it\u2019s no surprise that teens suffering in an abusive relationship often also see alcohol abuse involved. Over\u00a060 percent of sexual assaults involve alcohol<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n For victims, the combination of alcohol abuse and dating violence can lead to addiction as well as other issues like eating disorders, depression and suicidal thoughts. For abusive partners, using alcohol may lead them to become physically violent more quickly, scream, yell or escalate a normal conversation into a violent one. Regardless, alcohol impairs judgment and behavior and can make an abusive relationship even worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n By blaming alcohol for their behavior, abusive partners can refute responsibility for their actions or shy away from addressing their addiction. However, intoxication does not alter personality. How a person behaves when they are drunk is a reflection of themselves. If someone is abusive when drunk, it is only a matter of time before they become verbally, emotionally, physically or sexually abusive when they are sober. If you know someone suffering from alcohol addiction, there are\u00a0plenty of ways to help<\/a>. Have them call or\u00a0chat with a peer advocate\u00a0and learn\u00a0what you can do to help.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"