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About Domestic Violence Restraining/Protective Orders

What is a Restraining Order?

A restraining order-sometimes called a protective order-is a court order that makes it illegal for the abuser to:

Sometimes, restraining orders can also protect your children or other people who live in your home.

The specific details about what a restraining order can and cannot do depend on the laws of each state. In most states, though, violation of a restraining order is a crime. Because of this, a restraining order can be a powerful tool. If you have one, you don't have to wait until you are actually hurt or threatened before calling the police; you can call the police as soon as the abuser violates any part of the order, including coming near you or contacting you in any way. The police should respond more quickly to your call for help when you have a restraining order.

Who can Qualify for a Restraining Order?

In order to qualify for a domestic violence restraining order, you must have a "domestic" relationship with the abuser. Every state has its own rules for what qualifies as a domestic relationship. But, in almost every state, you will qualify if the abuser is someone:

In some states, other relationships qualify, including people who are:

Because the laws are different in every state, it is important to find out who qualifies for domestic violence restraining orders in your state. You can find out your state's law by going to their website or contacting Break the Cycle for help.